The sixth practice of following the Way of Love is the practice “To Go.” Bishop Budde once again provides spiritual guidance with wonderful insights (her own and quotes of wise people) and an even measure of encouragement and thought provoking questions to help the reader wrestle with the practical aspects of living and witnessing to their faith in God. Budde’s book, “Receiving Jesus: The Way of Love,” continues to help dive deeply into one more practice of living an active and fruitful life in relationship with Christ. The holy work of “going” requires patience, trust, and encouragement to overcome the obstacles we might encounter. As Budde writes, “There is risk in going, a vulnerability in crossing boundaries that conspire to keep us separate from one another. Yet such risk is an expression of love. Our going activates love within and among us that would otherwise lie dormant. Paul writes in his letter to the Philippians (2:5-8) of Jesus’ love as the ultimate border crossing and urges us to follow his example.” How can we begin the process of trusting God enough to have the confidence “To Go?”
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Lenten Book Study – “Receiving Jesus: To Bless”


The fifth practice in following the Way of Love is the practice of Blessing. This practice, perhaps more than any other practice in the Way of Love’s seven practices, is often misunderstood to be a special “reserved practice” for clergy or those who have made the “religious life” their daily life’s work. Several years ago, while serving at my first church as associate pastor, a very busy Sunday morning before worship required me to find someone to read the first Scripture lesson and say a blessing for the planting of a new tree in the church yard. With limited time available, I decided to “divide and conquer” these tasks – I asked the newly arrived Deacon to join the church school group outside and bless the tree, while I searched for a reader. After successfully finding a willing reader, I made my way to prepare for the upcoming service…only to be greeted by a frantic Sunday School Director, who was certain the tree would not be blessed before the service! I assured her I sent the Deacon to say the blessing; and she replied, “Yes, the Deacon is standing next to the tree, but refuses to bless the tree because they taught all the students in Deacon school, only Priests can do that!” Off to the tree I went, said the blessing, and then, after Sunday services, I assured the Deacon that God does not hear the blessings of Priests alone…that all of God’s children are sources of the eternal and perfect Love of God, and the blessings of everyone are heard quite equally. I am very happy to say that Bishop Budde shares this idea of blessings in her chapter of the practice of Blessing. To bless is to invite the reality of God’s Love and Goodness into our awareness; often a state of God’s presence that already exists, but perhaps we are still working toward that reality. It is like the picture above: the dim light of early sunrise hides many features and marks of beauty that exist in God’s world, and the blessings of light bring all these marks and moments of Love to our waking consciousness. To bless is a powerful practice of the Way of Love.
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